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How To Deal With Negative Thoughts

How To Deal With Negative Thoughts

Our thoughts are part of who we are.

But not all our thoughts are the best expression of who we are.

Thatā€™s why itā€™s so difficult to resist negative thoughts. By trying to fight against them weā€™re fighting against a part of ourselves. And that part of us that weā€™re trying to deny refuses to accept that it doesnā€™t exist.

Itā€™s best to not deny that these types of thoughts are part of us. Itā€™s better to not indulge them, the same way we might avoid an argument. By simply not engaging in the argument in the first place.

Although our thoughts are part of who we are theyā€™re not exclusively mine or yours. They belong to all of us, because whatever youā€™ve been tempted to do many others have also. Weā€™re all part of something bigger than merely ourselves.

Some people believe that if we donā€™t aggressively resist negative thoughts weā€™ll be more likely to act on them. But this isnā€™t necessarily true. The way to ā€œresistā€ negative thoughts is by using a bit of mental/spiritual Jiu-Jitsu. Just let the thoughts come and go on their own.

Itā€™s okay to accept negative thoughts as a strange part of who we, but we donā€™t have to accept that theyā€™re the best way to express ourselves.

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